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Martin Lewis: How the hidden university parental contribution works in England

Martin Lewis

They're 18 – that's old enough to vote, marry or join the army. True independence! Unless they're off to university.

For most under-25s, an increasing amount of their maintenance loan – there to help with living costs – is being dictated by an assessment of their parents' income. And this means parents are expected to fill the gap. This is not the case in Wales where ultimately everyone gets the same maximum amount of living loan regardless of parental income.

The living loan is means-tested based on family residual income

Regardless of where you are from in the UK, for under-25s, in almost all circumstances the amount of living loan you get is based on an assessment of your family's residual income – which, as most students have little earnings, is a proxy for parental income.

If parents are divorced, it's the income of the household of primary residency (including your parent's partner who may live there).

Residual income is roughly defined as total income minus pension contributions. There is also a small reduction made to your assessed income if you have other dependent children, but frankly the amounts are farcical. See my FT article – the UK's hidden one child per family uni policy.

Parents are expected to fill the gap, without being told

The implicit premise, for all countries except for Wales, is that parents will fill the gap, but implicit isn't good enough. It should be explicit.

Parental income is the ONLY element that dictates how much of the full living loan a student gets. The loan letter should say something like (based on a student starting university in September 2022, living in London with £70,000 combined family income):

"Student – your maintenance loan is £6,307 a year. This is less than the full loan and we expect your parents to make up at least the £6,360 difference."

Yet this still isn’t made explicit, despite the government making recent improvements to the wording of the loan letter.

At my TV roadshows I often hear parents complain: "It's a disgrace, the living loan isn't enough to cover their rent – I have to scrape up extra." These are usually parents whose offspring don't get the full loan. It isn't an accident – the "extra" is that hidden parental contribution.

One young student, desperately struggling on the minimum loan and unable to find work, asked me for help. I asked if his parents could afford to help and he said something akin to: "They can, but their view is I'm 18 now and at uni, and believe I should stand on my own two feet." They may well do, but the system doesn't. After I explained how it worked, his parents were shocked, and started to contribute.

The lack of transparency and clear guidance causes friction between students and parents. It also leaves some students in a dire position, with the risk of unmanageable debts or dropping out of university over cash flow issues.

How much are parents expected to contribute?

I hope one of our ready reckoner calculators will help you work that out.

I first wrote a Beware the parental contribution blog in 2016, and that had charts in it, so you could estimate. I've been excited to work with the team to build this calculator which should hopefully make it even easier to understand the scales of magnitude in your circumstances.

It's worked out based on the difference between the full loan (ie, the one those who have no family income receive – and is therefore deemed an appropriate amount to live off) and the loan that is paid for that amount of income.

Why doesn't the government tell people?

The lack of transparency over the parental contribution isn't new – it's been allowed by past Conservative, Coalition and Labour governments. Yet in recent years, with a large increase in the means-testing, I believe it has got more important.

Back in 2016, I wrote to the then Universities Minister Jo Johnson suggesting it was time to clear it up.

His disappointing and confusing response argued that just because the calculation is based on parents' income, that doesn't mean parents are expected to make a particular contribution – students can make up the difference from savings or part-time jobs.

Of course that's true, but that applies to all students regardless of parental income – so why differentiate based on parental income at all? By that logic, all students should get the same loan. If we don't expect parents to make up the gap, why judge on parental income?

I've raised the same issue directly with every subsequent Universities Minister, each of whom has been very sympathetic to the plight but done nowt about it – until recently.

Starting in 2022, the government has finally agreed to improve the wording of the loan letter it sends to students each year. But while it makes clear how the amount of living loan each student gets compares to the maximum, I’m disappointed it doesn’t go further. Crucially, the fact that parents are expected to make up the difference still isn’t made explicit.

My suspicion is no one wants to admit to mainly middle-class Britain quite how much they have to cough up.

Students can't force their parents to contribute

Bizarrely, while student loan amounts depend on parental income, there's no obligation on parents to contribute (and students can't force them).

This lacks logic – student and parents' finances should be separate, or students should have some ability to be able to force parents to comply. Though of course that wouldn't have solved the issue of parents who earn above the threshold but don't have the money to support their child (eg, those with a high income, but on a debt management plan).

Some under-25s can have their finances declared independent from their parents and thus separately assessed, but the criteria is extremely tough. You need to prove that you completely supported yourself financially for three years before starting university.

Even the full loan may not be big enough

The irony of the student finance debate is that while many headlines focus on demonising the 'huge debts', the biggest practical problem some students face is that the loan isn't big enough. With rents rising (there really is a need for greater control over the student rental market), even the full living loan amount can leave some struggling to make ends meet.

Of course, bigger loans are a psychological deterrent to many from non-traditional university backgrounds. This is why proper financial education is needed to explain that, as I briefly outlined earlier, the unique way student finance works often means it won't cost them more.

For more help on student finances, go to:

Martin Lewis: Student Loans Decoded

20+ Student Loan Mythbusting Tips

Student Loan Repayment

Beware paying uni fees upfront

10 Student MoneySaving Tips

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